Breaking up with someone has become quite the trope. A big part of the reason why that is the case has to do with the fact that it is quite frequently shown in movies, and whenever a depiction of such a situation occurs it usually refers to it in a rather comical fashion. As a result of the fact that this is the case, many people that are suffering through breakups might just end up feeling like there is no way for them to make the most of the kind of experiences they might have in the future.
You might be suffering from a breakup yourself. It’s not easy to see that there is a light on the other end of the tunnel. You might be focused on reacting to a breakup right now, but if you were to change your perspective a little bit you would see that life will go on. In spite of the fact that you don’t have the person you love most in the world, there are still plenty of things that you can do to make it so that your mind would always be occupied no matter what other external factors might be impacting it at this current point in time.
When you divert your mind and look at the bigger picture, it can be easier for you to deal with the breakup that you are currently going through. You don’t have to be in a relationship to survive, after all. You can focus on other kinds of activities, activities that would not require any emotional labor from you nor would they make you feel like you might lose out on something if you are not careful.